No Air of sorry

My 'real' grandma had went to the glory at Saturday night when my dad was receiving a phone call from BM. He looked exactly calm and emotionless...I asked my dad why he didn't have any reaction on this matter. He didn't give a significant answer... Maybe he is just trying to cover his bereavement from us. In newspaper, I can notice my family members' names appear on the obituary. Thought it wouldn't be...

Today early in the morning, both my parents go for the grandma's dark parade... This is also my dad's first attendance as mourner since my grandma passed away last weekend...He didn't even own his chance for a witness of her death. While, my brothers and me as her grandchildren didn't in mourning at all. We are not intended to do this... Just...

"The story goes back to about 3 years ago where he finally met back his own parents.... Unfortunately, his dad has gone, just left the widow there at the vegetable farm with the other siblings. After seeking for the truth, I find out my dad wasn't the only child that she let to other family for being adopted... There are 3 instead - 2 daughters and a son ie. my dad lo.

I can feel his happiness upon tracking down all his own family... In fact, he has realized that he was just an adoption on his younger age. His adopt-parents didn't revealed his identity before they were gone on his 12th. It was his grandpa who told him he truth. What a miserable experience for him to go through at that time. He didn't blame his parents at all... "

However, I think today's society seldom has this kind of incident anymore. I mean a mother rarely has her children adopted because of family's poverty.

I wonder how is my aunt going to tell his son that he is adopted...pity of him... My grandma bought him with money... sounds like children trading...so, how come it can be so easy to let him to recognise her own parents back so early? At least, he has to show his gratitude in the future.